From self-doubt to storytelling
I never imagined I’d be here—writing, sharing my story, and inspiring others. If you had asked me years ago, I would have said English was my worst subject. Writing felt impossible, something only “real writers” could do.
But life has a way of leading us exactly where we need to be, even when we don’t see it at first. I used to believe that stories were meant for those with perfect words, but now I know they’re meant for those with something to say. And I have something to say.
I struggled to put my thoughts into words, always second-guessing myself. Every blank page felt like proof that I wasn’t meant to be a writer. But no matter how hard it was, I refused to give up. Over time, I realized storytelling isn’t about perfect grammar or flawless sentences—it’s about connection. It’s about finding a way to share what’s in your heart so that someone else feels seen, understood, and inspired.
My voice didn’t come from trying to write like someone else; it came from embracing my own experiences and the lessons I’ve learned along the way. I stopped trying to be perfect and started focusing on being real. That’s when everything changed.
Family first, always
At the heart of everything I do is my family. They are my foundation, my greatest source of love and my daily reminder of what truly matters.
Being a parent isn’t just about teaching our children—it’s about learning from them. They’ve taught me the power of resilience, the magic of curiosity, and the beauty of believing in something before you can see it.
The world tells us success is measured in numbers—money, accolades, status—but I know better. Success is found in the people we love, the moments we cherish, and the impact we make in each other’s lives.
My children are my biggest inspiration. They’ve taught me more about resilience, curiosity, and love than any book ever could. Watching them grow, seeing their struggles and triumphs, reminds me why I write.
When they faced self-doubt, I wanted to give them more than words of encouragement—I wanted to give them proof that perseverance matters. That’s why my books focus on growth, resilience, and self-belief.
I want my children—and every child who reads my stories—to know they are enough just as they are. I want my children to grow up knowing that their voices matter. That their dreams are worth chasing. That they don’t have to be perfect to be powerful.
A heart for others
Caring, loving, and determined—these words define me. I find joy in making someone laugh, offering a helping hand, or simply showing kindness. The world always needs more love, and if my words can bring comfort and encouragement to even one child, I know I’m living with purpose.
Books have the power to uplift, heal, and inspire. I write for the child who feels unheard. For the dreamer who needs a little encouragement to believe in themselves. For the kid who hesitates before speaking up in class or doubts whether they’re good enough.
Every child deserves to feel seen. My stories aren’t just about letters and lessons—they are about self-discovery, about embracing who we are and all we can be.
An unexpected journey to becoming a writer
Writing wasn’t always my passion. In school, it felt more like a struggle than a calling. I would stare at a blank page, feeling like I had nothing important to say. I thought storytelling was reserved for those with a natural talent, not for someone like me.
But as I got older, I realized that writing wasn’t about perfection; it was about expression. It was about taking my experiences, my emotions, and my perspective and putting them into words. Writing became my way of understanding the world, of making sense of my own journey.
The moment my child’s eyes lit up while reading my book, I knew I had found my purpose. Seeing young readers connect with my stories reminded me why I started—because words matter. Because the way we speak to ourselves shapes how we see the world.
Now, I can’t imagine not writing. It’s become a part of who I am, a way to leave something lasting in the world. Every book I create is a piece of me, a message I hope will inspire someone who needs to hear it.
The power of mindset
If I’ve learned anything, it’s this: The only thing separating those who succeed from those who don’t is the willingness to keep going.
Doubt crept in many times.
“Who am I to write a book?”
But I refused to let it stop me. The way we talk to ourselves becomes the way we see ourselves. That’s why I teach my children to replace “I can’t.” with “I can try.” Because at the end of the day, the only real failure is not trying.
That’s the message I want children to take from The Alphabet of Me. Confidence isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about daring to try. It’s about knowing that mistakes don’t define us; they teach us.
Growth happens when we embrace challenges, and every small victory matters. Every child deserves to see themselves as the hero of their own story. That’s why I write books that remind them they already have everything they need inside them.
Children today face so many pressures. Social media, academic expectations, the fear of failure, all of these things can make them feel like they have to be perfect to be worthy. But that’s not true. Worthiness isn’t something you earn; it’s something you already have.
The Alphabet of Me isn’t just about learning letters; it’s about learning who you are. It’s a book that encourages children to define themselves by their strengths, not their fears. To speak to themselves with kindness. To believe that they are capable of more than they ever imagined.
The legacy I want to leave
Through my books, my brand, and my life, I want to inspire others to chase their dreams, believe in themselves, and never give up. If my journey encourages even one person to push past their doubts and take a chance on their passion, I’ve done something truly meaningful. If my words can help even one child believe in themselves, then every late night, every doubt, every struggle was worth it.
But I don’t just want to write stories. I want to create a movement of self-belief and empowerment. I want children to see themselves reflected in my books. I want them to know that no matter where they come from, no matter what struggles they face, they are enough.
Whether a child is learning their ABCs or a parent is reading my book as a nightly tradition, I hope my words plant the seeds of confidence and possibility. I hope they remind someone that they have a voice, and that voice matters.
This is me: a storyteller, a dreamer, a believer in love, family, and perseverance. And this is just the beginning.
This isn’t just about books. It’s about a movement of self-love, courage, and endless possibility. And I am just getting started.
About Desiree Dusablon
Desiree Dusablon is the author of The Alphabet of Me: Building Confidence One Letter at a Time and the creator of WonderSprouts Books. Her work is rooted in inspiration, personal growth, and the belief that words shape our world.
Her journey as an author began with a simple but powerful motivation—her children. When they struggled with negative thoughts and said, “I can’t do it,” she wanted to offer more than encouragement. She wanted to show them that perseverance matters. Instead of saying, “I can’t,” she told herself, “I can. It might be hard, and it might not be perfect, but I will try my best.”
What started as a way to lead by example became something bigger—a book that embodies confidence, resilience, and growth. Now, she hopes her words will inspire others the way they inspired her—because the way we see ourselves can change everything.
Want to help a child build lifelong confidence? Grab a copy of The Alphabet of Me: Building Confidence One Letter At A Time today and start the journey of self-discovery!
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